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You Say Whiner....I Say Mother

Since when did wanting to be a loving mother or parent become such a bad thing?  When did wanting to spend time with your child become so wrong?

With this whole bell schedule situation I see people who want to spend time with their kids being criticized by others.  For what?  I see parents who want their children to excel not only in school but in other activities outside of school and they are told that education is more important.  Who said?

As an EMT I have seen many horrible things and that includes young children.  I have seen children who have been burned with scalding hot water by a parent.  I have seen a child whose parent put a nail in their foot because a child kept taking his shoes off....

These are loving, caring parents who want their children to have a childhood that includes school, playtime, sports, boy scouts, etc.  So why are they being ridiculed?

Not ONE parent said that education was not important!  What is being said is that we want equality. We want to be treated fairly by the school board.  We want a say in what happens to our children's future.

One person said that fighting for what you believe in was not a proper thing to teach our children just because we are not getting what we want....

Take a look at history...Would you say that Martin Luther King was a whiner?  Was Eleanor Roosevelt just a complainer?  Was Rosa Parks just being stubborn? Did Susan B. Anthony need to get a life?  These people changed history and gave us what we have today.  They did not back down.  They did not just hide under a rock.  These people fought for what they believed in!  Our children read about these people and do reports on these people.  Do you tell your kids that they were nothing but whiners??

If your child was being bullied in school would you just tell them, it's a part of life and growing up so just adjust and get on with your life?  I Sure Hope Not!!!

Have you thought about the parent who could lose their job because now they can't be to work on time?  Or how about the dad/mom who has partial custody of their child and only gets them everyday after school?  Or yes, what about the kid who can't get to after school activities now because they will be home too late?

Look, nobody wants their taxes to go up.  We all live here, too.

We are just asking to be listened to.  We are trying to fix a school system that has been broken for many years.  We are asking questions and wanting answers.

As a mother the most important thing in my life are my children!  I will fight for them until my very last breath!

You may call me a whiner or a complainer or even a pain in the butt....I say I am a fighter, a voice for a child...but most of all I am a MOTHER and no matter what you say to me or about me does not matter because last night when I got home from that meeting my child came up to me, hugged me and said, "I am proud of you mommy!"

So please do not tell people to shut up or stop complaining.  If you are tired of hearing about it than don't read the blogs.  If you support what the board is doing then show up at a meeting and tell them.  But do not judge someone because they want to be a good parent.

Tired of Hypocrisy

9:27 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Nicely written. Agree 100% with your analysis of the entire fiasco. Thank you for your reasoning voice.
Those that are being critical of others may perhaps wish to walk in the others shoes for a moment. It is obvious they did not hear at the meeting last evening that there have been hundreds of emails received voicing displeasure over the new bell schedule. Sadly it has become the norm that others demean those that disagree with them. Instead of finding ways to come together, they feel the need to push others in the opposite direction. It will be interesting to watch as the taxes are raised once again. Those same people that are demeaning others will be the first to raise their voice against an increase. Perhaps those they demeaned should sit out on the sidelines and watch them twist in the wind as we all have been doing the past few years.
Thanks again!

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P. Krenshaw

9:51 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012

That's the pot calling the kettle black.

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Pete Krenshaw

11:34 pm on Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Hey there P the imposter...nice to see you weighing in.

In my opinion, the bell schedule is just the latest in a long list of problems brought about by poor management. Unfortunately I do not see an end in sight but surely cutting one another down on blogs and in comments will not help the situation.

In regards to the bell schedule, there is no way to make everyone happy. Nothing should be off the table when it comes to providing quality education for the children of our community while keeping the taxpayers pockets in mind. This includes making adjustments to all bell schedules, utilizing buses both owned or contracted and being sure to optimize the bus routes.

Now with this administration, I have little faith the right options will even be considered in the end and all of us will pay for it.

And P. - come up with your own name you hack.

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P. Krenshaw

10:39 am on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Hello Pete,

It is good to see you join the conversation. I am still waiting to hear about your meeting with Dr. Cressman. Any updates?

I am still waiting to hear about your meeting with Dr. Cressman.

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Pete Krenshaw

11:58 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Let me guess...you are waiting to hear about my meeting with Dr. Cressman? Who is to say I haven't already had a meeting with Dr. Cressman... Why do you care if I did or didn't? I find it amusing you can't come up with your own name and feel the need to use mine.

Anyone wonder what happened to the Foight hyphenation? It does make me curious...

southampton parent

7:28 am on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Very well Said Michele and thank you!

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HONEST MOM

8:25 am on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Michelle my hat is off to you! As mothers there is NOTHING we won't do for our children and as Mothers we fight for what we believe is the right thing for our children. What I've learned being a Mother for so long is that not all of us have the same beliefs or want the same things for our kids. I ...like you want well rounded kids and want to spend time with them. Sadly some aren't very good mothers like you've mentioned. There are other parents who focus on specific aspects of their child's lives and that's okay but it's also okay for us to want and demand that we have the time to have well rounded kids.
I've never let ANYONE including administrators tell me what will happen with my kids. I don't plan to let them do it now! Believe me there have been more than a few times that I've done the tango with principals to demand the right things be done in situations regarding my kids. At first they are shocked that I have the audacity to stand up to their decisions and then after they hear me out....they realize....not only would I stand up for my kids...but I'd do it for any kid to be treated fairly and I am not the parent who says Not my kid. Even my kids make mistakes.
That's the problem with this school board. They do not consider that these kids...they belong to parents who care. They cannot fathom that we won't all follow along just because they say so!!!!

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Michelle Hazlett

11:52 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Honest Mom, Thank you for your kind words! You are right, we do not all parent the same way. We do not all want to same for our kids. But for those of us who do want our kids to have "it all" why should we be denied? Your child should be very proud of you!

HONEST MOM

8:31 am on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Pete much like you I have no faith in this school board. Their track record speaks volumes.
I wonder why in the world these people even continue to be on the school board when it is so obvious they could care less about the welfare of the children. Now I have to admit that there are a few who stand up for the kids on occasion but for the majority it seems like these members are there for some kind of power trip because their decisions are not in the best welfare of the community or the kids for the most part.
Like I've said repeatedly...it's time for most of them to resign. Let people who care about the welfare of children and the community make the decisions.

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Lou

8:35 am on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Hey, everyone has to pick their battles. But you have to understand that some parents have somewhat older kids, and have realized that the things you thought were really important when your child was 7 or 8 years old, you look back on later and realize it really wasn't such a big deal. I'm not telling you to back down from something you feel strongly about, just saying that when others don't agree with you, you might want to see if what they are saying has any merit.

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(Davis) Southampton Mom

10:06 am on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Hey Lou, I hear you, but you're not hearing us. I have 4 kids and my oldest is 24 and my youngest is 6. My oldest did his 12 years of school, plus 4 years of college. Now, it's his time to go to work and get home after 4 pm. My other 3 (2 in elementary & 1 in middle school) need their time to be kids. I won't look back and realize this was not such a big deal. Don't you remember when you were a child? I'm sure you are a well adjusted adult now because of your childhood. I remember coming home from school doing homework, then being able to go outside & just be a kid and unwind and have no worries. I want my children to have a childhood, not become adults overnight. They will have enough to worry about when they get older. Right now they are well adjusted kids, who do good in school and enjoy their extra-curricular activities.
P.S. Nice blog Michelle!!

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Michelle Hazlett

10:40 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Lou, you are probably right and you have probably been through alot with the CSD during your kids education. I am sure you had a few battles to fight. Maybe many years from now it won't be a big deal but for right now it is. My frustration is that some of our kids have been through so much in the last year that it just doesn't seem right to make more changes. Just give us some time to adjust to an already hectic situation. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and we don't all have to agree but why are we being ridiculed? There is no right or wrong. Some people are passionate about things and other people are just more laid back about things.

Dr. Marie J.

10:39 am on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Ok, I couldn't bite my tongue any longer. This 'holier than thou' twaddling is ridiculous. I can't even fathom how you can begin to compare this to the historical examples mentioned here. Whiner, mother, its all semantics, whats really going on is something so insignificant is being turned into a preposterous quest for self affirmation. You are wonderful parents! You care about your children and they come first! Everyone who has an opinion counter to yours doesn't care about the welfare of their children and should be in awe of your admirable parenting skills. If my opinion differs I am a horrible parent and don't care about my or anyone else child. Do you see how ridiculous this begins to sound? I hope this satiates you and you savor those extra 15-30 minutes you get to spend with your child.

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Michelle Hazlett

1:30 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Dr. Marie, Where in my blog did I EVER say that people who disagree with me are horrible parents? You are entitled to your opinion and if you think we are being so ridiculous than why don't you write a blog and say it! As an EMT I work evenings I can be at home with my younger son during the day and be there when my other one gets home from school. The time I get to do whatever with my children is precious to me. Does it make you feel good to ridicule and put down parents? Are you sooo much better than the rest of us because you have the word DOCTOR in front of your name? I stated at the end of my blog if you are tired of hearing about it than don't read the blogs!! You are Dr. what part of that did you not understand??

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Dr. Marie J.

1:48 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Oh, so only people who agree with you can comment. I see.

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Michelle Hazlett

2:17 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Again Dr. J, I Did Not Say That! Are you sure you are a Dr.? I just asked that people not be so negative to those who wish to spend time with their children. Re-read the last part of the blog and maybe you will understand what I was saying! You want to make fun of us, call us names, write your own blog!

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Dr. Marie J.

2:29 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Ms. Hazlett - I never called anyone any names. You don't own this space and I and anyone else is free to comment wherever and however they wish. Oh, I completely understand what you are saying but it still doesn't mean I have to agree with it. Lastly, I am very sure that I am a doctor. YOU keep harping on that. Personally, I don't see how that has anything to do with my comments. Actually, after this interaction I completely see why you have gotten nowhere with the school boards and administration. If anything you are the one doing the attacking. Why are you simply picking on my comments. There are a few other comments on this blog that seem to be in agreement with my statements. Why aren't you attacking them? Jealous much?

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Michelle Hazlett

2:44 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Dr. J, I did make my comments to those others. Again, I stated in my first response that you ARE entitled to your opinion, never said you weren't. I harp on the fact of you being a Dr. because most Drs. I know are very professional and have class and dignity. You can keep your title becuase the only title that concerns me is MOTHER! I am done with you and you may respond how you wish because I have other obligtions to attend to....It's called my child!!

Allison Carter

11:33 am on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Can someone explain to me the redistricting issues? I've heard several parents disappointed at the fact that their children live one mile from one school but are being bused across district to another; however, I can't find any info on the website that discusses this redistricting issue. I'm legitimately looking for the information, for my own knowledge!

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warmama

3:26 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Central Bucks Elementary schools have staggered hours. Five of the schools start at 9:05 and end at 3:45. Council Rock School District has 10 elementary schools that begin at 9:10 and 3:40.

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warmama

3:26 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Correction - CRSD schools start at 9:10 and end at 3:40.

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WDC

5:18 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Thats fine for Central Bucks. We are not them and the late dismissal will not work here. This area is too clustered as it is now. So lets add buses to the 4-6pm rush hour and call it safe?? This is not a safety issue it is a cost issue, the board cannot justify spending the money for our children's safety. Talk about an insult to the community that they work for. Lets redirect all of this passive aggressive behavior that we are exhibiting toward each other and direct it to the board, which is where this all began from in the first place.

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warmama

6:03 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

The Central Bucks Schools on that schedule are Barclay ( Warrington), Butler(Chalfont) , Groveland, Linden(both in Doylestown) and Warwick (Jamison). Those are all congested areas as well. Ever been on route 152 in Chalfont at 4:00? It's a parking lot. These schools are making it work and probably have been for years. If the ad hoc committee can find an alternative, great. If not, I'm sure everyone will adjust. The children will adjust quicker if they don't see their parents getting all upset about it.

WDC

6:17 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

I am glad that the new dismissal time works for you, but it will not work for most. I do understand that children will adjust but they also need stability and routine. If this goes through we will all be rushing around trying to squeeze in family time, activities etc.. We have all been through enough and we need something to remain the same.

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MW

8:10 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Very well said Michelle :-) Amazing how everyone has an opinion, yet have not come out to the meetings to speak. Yet those of us who have are told we are whining and being ridiculous. Atleast we are out there speaking our minds. I suppose that we could just as easily turn around and call those whiners also. I however will not because it not worth it and I will not stoop down to that level. Everyone has an opinion and is allowed to speak it. It would be really nice if people would stop bashing others just because of their opinion.

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MW

9:35 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Ah, I knew that it wouldn't be long before you had to have a negative comment towards me. Just couldn't help yourself could you? If you can not understand what I wrote, then perhaps you need a grammar or reading lesson. Like I asked you in the posts yesterday, please don't speak to me that way. Again, I deserve the same respect you would expect back. If you have a respectful way of arguing your opinion with me, then fine, by all means do so. I understand you have a different opinion then me, yet I have not bashed you once because of that. It's called having an open conversation and opening your mind to what others have to say, and maybe even learning something from it, whether you agree or not. And again, your opinion is that you think my argument is "flawed", but trust me there are many, many other parents out there who have the same opinion, whether you want to believe that or not. I still can not for the life of me understand why people continue to bash us because we have an opinion and feel like we are fighting for our children.

MW

10:15 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

Thank you for your wonderful grammar lesson. You are right, I forgot to type "is" so I must be the stupidest person on earth, right? I am sure it allows you to feel that much better about yourself. You obviously feel like you are superior to everyone or atleast need someway to reassure yourself of that. And also thank you for knowing me so well as to know my response. Oh wait, you don't know me at all and that would definetly not have been my response. How dare you speak that way of my child. You have know idea what education level he is on. At this point in our conversations, I can only assume that he is smarter then you because he knows how to speak to people and respect them, which you obviously do not.

I am choosing to leave this conversation because I am tired of dealing with elitists who feel that their opinion is how the world should be run and that they are so much better then everyone else that they can sit here and criticize everyone. And who have continued to bash me, others and now my child. I hope you can sleep at night knowing that you, yourself have been the bully. Go right ahead and dissect what I have written, bash me/others, whatever you can do to make yourself feel better.

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Michelle Hazlett

11:41 pm on Thursday, May 24, 2012

MW, Thank you for your words of support. Thank you for taking an interest in what happens in your childs life. Don't bother with those minor few who have nothing but negative, hurtful words to say. Know that you are a good mother and you can hold your head up high. Be glad knowing that your children have a positive role model like you in their lives. Know that either way you did not back down and you gave it your best shot!

Pete Krenshaw

12:08 am on Friday, May 25, 2012

I think it is great that everyone is finally (over the last month or so) talking about the administration and the school board. Unfortunately, the bell schedule is just one of the issues we are faced with. As many have pointed out, it is actually a direct result of other decisions that have been made and a change in the bell schedule as well as the bus routes is now a necessity - not an option.

Compromises will have to be made by all parties, parents and administration alike. I believe a combination of some sort of staggered bell schedule along with revised bus routes will be the correct course of action. I believe it was Steve Allen who stated it best, sharing the burden will make it more bearable for all. There really are no good answers to choose from. And again, bickering amongst ourselves will certainly not help the cause.

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Daniella

10:08 am on Friday, May 25, 2012

Michelle, thank you for your well written analysis. You don't deserve some of the nastiness being thrown at you on this board, just for wanting to stand up for what's best for your children! There is no need for this to get as ugly as some of these boards have been getting! Our children have been through so much upheaval due to the decisions of this school board and is it so wrong to want them to have at least some stability? I'm a Davis mom- my kids are already going to be going to a new school, leaving friends behind at McDonald, adjusting to a new environment and new school population -do we have to throw this at them as well? And yes, after-school activities may be scoffed at by some, but they are important and they do a lot to build children's confidence and pave the way for them to be successful adults. My daughter just got accepted into the Pennsylvania Chorale but mandatory rehearsals are at 4:30 and I hate to tell her that she may not be able to participate because we won't be able to make it in time. She also dances and loves her small dance school, has gone there since she was 4, but the class she needs to be in starts at 5pm- that means no time to eat, no time for anything but running straight to class. Ok, in the grand of scheme of things, these may not be huge things, but they mean something to my daughter and with the adjustments of this new school, I just wish that was all both my kids had to deal with!
We have a right to be frustrated!

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Tax payer

10:12 am on Friday, May 25, 2012

WOW, all I can say. I am a single mom of two, one in Elementry and one in Middle school. I completely understand being upset by the Bell changes. However, if your boss came to you today and stated that the company was changing you work day hours would you be this upset? Sometimes everyone needs to step back for a minute and look at the bigger picture. Flexibility, kindness, respect, caring- these are things that I teach my boys. Along with the fact that not everything in life is fair, justified or makes sense. Sometimes we just have to accept, adapt, improvise and overcome the challenges life throws at you. Does the CSD need to stop spending the way it has been - - DEFINATELY!!! Should the schoolboard members resign--- not so much. Why??? Out of all the blogs and people I have spoken to not a single one has said that they would be on the board if the opportunity presented itself. I have attended the meetings and I believe that the school board is going to do what it wants. I work two jobs and run a household by myself. I could not image attempting to take on the responibilty to run for a spot on the board. So, until that day comes I will voice my opinion in the most respectful manner possible and hope that someone can stop for a minute and see the other side of the argument. If any of these arguments were to be presented to a mediator they would take from both sides and mesh the ideas together. Called COMPROMISE!!!!! I highly recommend EVERYONE try it.

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Michelle Hazlett

1:38 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

Tax Payer and Nia, I have no problem with compromise. But did the board ever put anything out there to us, NO! It is not until people complained that they even asked us for our opninions. The board is finally starting to listen to us and now they are working with us to form different solutions. I know in the end that I will have no choice but to accept what decision is made. Just like with the closing of schools! Didn't want it but it happened. I live here and I don't want my taxes increased. What most of us are saying is that the board knew about the bus situation 3yrs ago. Why didn't they start to figure something out then. Their financial situation is their own fault! They did this, so why is my kid paying for it! There are board members NOW admitting that they screwed up. Like I said in my blog we just want to be treated fairly and we just want to be heard. There is nothing wrong with people wanting to stand up and fight just like there is nothing wrong for people to want to sit back and do nothing. I just feel that if you choose to do nothing than you have no right to complain. My blog was started just to say there is nothing wrong for standing up for what you believe in. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. You don't like what I have to say FINE but why do you feel the need to put people down???

Tax payer

12:31 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

It is VERY difficult to remove emotions from any situation. The school board is set in place to make difficult decisions with positive outcomes and at times that does happen. However, lately it appears that they have been making decisions that just don't appear to be thought out. Decisions are being presented to the Community after the board has already made up it's mind and as a formality. This is Frustrating!!!!!!!! It may very well be better for the high school and elementry to flip start times, I have not seen any reports to show one way or another. Here is a suggestion, have the parents that run the Home and School get together and come up with well thought out ideas and have two people present them to the School Board. By doing this it will show involvment, thought process and respect to the officce that the members hold. You may not like the people in the office but you should respect the office itself. Instead of disrespecting the School District on the internet, get together and make many complaints into a well thought out plan to present the School Board with. WORK TOGETHER. This also is directed at the School Board. Respect the voices of the Community, whether or not they have kids in our schools. Knowledge is power. There have been too many decisions made without clearly examining all the information presented. Just because a parent (or several) are emotionally addressing an issue---DO NOT ignore them. Some way these issues can be managed together.

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Just a thought

12:37 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

Friends,

I just created a petition: Centennial Community: Oppose the new dismissal time for the 2012-2013 school year., because I care deeply about this very important issue.

I'm trying to collect 100 signatures, and I could really use your help.

To read more about what I'm trying to do and to sign my petition, click here:
http://www.change.org/petitions/centennial-community-oppose-the-new-dismissal-time-for-the-2012-2013-school-year?share_id=sHfqpolXzNpe=pce

It'll just take a minute!

Once you're done, please ask your friends to sign the petition as well. Grassroots movements succeed because people like you are willing to spread the word!

Thank You

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Emily Cohen

2:54 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

The meeting was for the committee, with the intention of discussing ideas. The committee will be meeting again in the evening to accommodate the schedules of those who work full time. I know this to be true, because I volunteered to be on the committee.

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McClaine's Mother

7:39 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

Everyone, when the Board closed the Schools they held a meeting with the Police there. People were ejected for speaking their mind. It was ugly. We were told to fill out green cards and they would answer our questions. Mine was never even got to. The Board at the time was completely belligerent to the people and in my opinion deserves the same respect they gave the public.

Now as far as the Bell Schedule and all the Jackasses that don’t have children in our school and are commenting here go back to searching porn. They created a community of bused children when they STOLE our neighborhood schools and failed to plan for it. If the School Board really wants to know the mind of the parents simply send out a questionnaire to all the parents you will see nobody wants the late start. Also don’t tell me about raising taxes, we are currently auctioning off buses that are 13 years old and
could still be used until we have enough.
MICHELE HAS IT RIGHT!!!! FIGHT FOR YOUR KIDS!!!! SEAN MCCLAINE IS A JACKASS!!!

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Avery Walsh, PhD

8:54 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

If you don't like what is going on in this district, send your kid to private school. I blame the administrators for not sticking to their guns and making a decision. This shouldn't have even been up for debate. It should have been voted upon by the board and everyone move on. Are you aware of what's going on in Upper Darby? You should be glad this is the extent of your concerns. Again, please send your kid to private school so all of us parents that care and are keeping a positive attitude for the sake of our children are not bothered anymore by your whining. And yes, this is whining. And please be respectful of others. By calling someone a jackass you are only insulting your own intelligence.

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concerned123

2:03 pm on Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Upper Darby? What does this have to do with this topic? Are you referring to a disctrict of low income residents, which most bearly pay any taxes and are on governement aide?

Your logic of the Board just voting on something without input from the residents/parents and tax payers is the problem with today's society.

Everyone should have a voice and I applaude you that speak up. Tell your board to be more transparent and discuss issues with residents. Residents of Centennial pay enough in taxes, we should have a Board that appreciates our input.

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Avery Walsh, PhD

2:13 pm on Tuesday, May 29, 2012

No they are about to lose their entire arts program due to budgetary constraints.

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Everyday Nonsense

10:18 pm on Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Avery it looks like you are another one with skewed judgment. Say this aloud to yourself, what is more important transportation to the school or an Art Class???
Hmm? Let me guess your kid would have been the next Rembrandt, but because they had to bus those darn kids to the school at a decent time, your child will now have to get a real job!!! I guess your PHD wasn't in prioritizing!!!

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Avery Walsh, PhD

10:50 pm on Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Nonsense - I was simply pointing out that there are other districts that are facing much more drastic changes for their children than changing school times. As many of the opposers to the staggered schedule have stated here, they want well rounded children that can be involved in extra curricular activities as well. In some areas children aren't as fortunate where their parents can afford to send them to practice, lessons, rehearsal, etc provided outside of their school district. The arts program isn't just "art class" but all music, theatre, and any other expressive medium available within the school. Have you analyzed all of the data that led to the decision of the staggered schedule? If so please enlighten me on how they can possibly achieve the objectives stated under the constraints presented? What my PhD has afforded me is the ability to be pragmatic and not let my emotions get the better of me. Is the schedule change ideal? No. But this is the dilemma we are faced with and ALL stakeholders need to be involved in the process of determining a solution. I hope the parents in the parochial and private schools along with other community members have filled out the survey provided by the district because as much as you and others want to think that the parents are the only ones with a say in the matter that is just simply untrue.

Beat it

9:06 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

Sean, anybody can place their name on the ballot for School Board. The general public has no idea who they are. They basically vote blindly. They are elected to represent the people. However they start thinking on their own and acting like they are some sort of Demigod instead of representing the people. For instance they didn’t even ask the teachers or parents about "Everyday Math". They were sold a bill of goods and the teachers and students hate it. I personally don’t give a damn about what they think. What matters is, what the experienced teachers and parents think. The Board messed up for not planning for transportation; now they have to fix it, period. Don’t worry about my children living in the basement; they will be heir to my Franchise. If you dont have children in Willow Dale, Davis or McDonald' beat it!!!

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Tax payer

10:33 am on Monday, May 28, 2012

It is up to those in the community to educate themselves on those they are voting for; whether it is for the School Board or the President of the United States. Knowledge goes a long way. I would not vote if I didn't know what those running for office had to offer the schools, community, county, state and country.

Tired of Hypocrisy

9:27 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

Sean McClaine - Your arrogance is only surpassed by your ignorance. What entitled you to say to any person that cares about their child that you ‘hope’ they enjoy remedial English. Are you a fortune teller? Perhaps you are God and we just do not know it. With your comments or rather, your suppositions, I shall follow your lead.
You are a 5’5” man with a chip on your shoulder larger than your body. You and your spouse work so that you can afford to live in Warminster and send your children to private school. You drive a large SUV (or truck) and bully people on the road because it makes you feel ‘bigger’. You are an editor since you feel the need to correct grammar, instead of addressing the issues. You were not raised as a Quaker otherwise you would adhere to ‘SPICES’.

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Tired of Hypocrisy

9:27 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

cont...The parents posting about the conditions of Centennial Schools have every right to do so. They have chosen to send their children through the district schools in the belief that the schools are as good as or better than they were. Others in the Township choose to send their children to Parochial or private schools and that is their right to do so. However; I believe most of these parents would not interfere or be condescending to parents that were protesting issues in their parochial or private schools.
If you feel because you are a taxpayer, you have the right to insert your ill-mannered comments into the discussion, please know that most would not feel it was their place to degrade you or your children should you encounter a problem at their school.
I find it sad that a supposed adult would demean others children without any knowledge of the child or the parent other than what is posted. I honestly pity your children. I cannot imagine what it would be like to be raised with someone who feels they are superior to others. Sir, step off your soapbox and join the human race.

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Avery Walsh, PhD

10:21 pm on Friday, May 25, 2012

June 12th can't come soon enough... Enough is enough! I don't care where someones child goes to school, everyone in this community has a right to have a say when taxes are involved. Regardless of whether you have 12 kids in the district or zero you still have to pay taxes and bottom line, WE DON'T WANT THEM RAISED ANYMORE!!! If you read back in Mr. McClaine's posts he is also concerned about taxes and regardless of where his child goes his vote accounts for the same amount your does. People are losing their jobs left and right and you don't care about that at all! It's little Jimmy is going to miss karate so we should raise everyone's taxes to buy buses. I agree that we should have never been in this position to begin with and many people dropped the ball but this is the situation we are in. Do you want to continue to complain about something that has already happened? No, lets pass this schedule, put on a happy face for our children, and put this energy into making Centennial a respectable school district again. Again, as others have stated, the people who don't support the staggered schedule have offered ZERO alternatives. If you have them lets hear them! How will you explain to your child that they aren't getting into the college of their choice because they went to a sub par high school and instead of their parent fighting to make this a district to be proud of, they fought for a bell schedule?

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Michelle Hazlett

3:14 pm on Saturday, May 26, 2012

Avery, You are entitled to your opinion! But HOW DARE YOU USE MY SON'S NAME!!!! GET OFF THE KARATE THING TOO, PLEASE!! YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT MY CHILD OR HOW MUCH KARATE MEANS TO HIM!!! YOU CROSSED THE LINE THERE!!!!!!!!! None of us want our taxes to go up. I stated that in the blog! We don't want people to lose their jobs, also stated in the blog!! If you and Mr. McClaine feel so strongly about your taxes and what MAY happen then I expect yo see you there at the meeting with your green card filled out to be able to express your opinion in front of all of us. I have been in front of the school board, I am not afraid to speak my mind! This is not my first time fighting with this board. You probably don't know half of what has happened in the last year! I have been trying to make our elementary school a better place. May I ask what have YOU done??? I, unlike Mr. McClaine came here for Leary Elementary School and not just because of cheap taxes. I wanted my children to go to a blue ribbon school, A No Place For Hate School, A school that was #1 in the whole United States for it's Character Counts Program! So I hope to see both of you there front and center at the board meeting saying that you approve of what the board is doing and to go ahead with the hange schedule. Unless you are all talk and no action, which is what I beleive you are!!

Options

10:55 am on Saturday, May 26, 2012

Dear Avery, One alternative to raising taxes for buses is NOT TO AUCTION OFF 13 YEAR OLD BUSES WHEN WE STILL NEED THEM. DO YOU THINK WE COULD HAVE KEPT THEM AND DID A BRAKE JOB ON THEM????
Another option: DONT BUY $500,000 Sound Systems for High schools when you need buses!!!
Another Option: Don’t buy $3.2 Million Dollar Football fields when you need buses!!!!
Another Option: Redistrict so you don’t bus kids that live 1/2 mile from Willow Dale to McDonalds and kids that live 1 mile from McDonalds to Willow Dale!!!!
I can come with options ALL DAY!!!
Too bad our elected officials cant or wont!!!!!

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Avery Walsh, PhD

11:14 am on Saturday, May 26, 2012

Again, these are all things that are done! Happened in the past. Over. Were they bad decisions? Probably, but you can only move on. Those really aren't viable options now. Come up with something that is actually feasible.

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Bunch of Idiots

12:54 pm on Saturday, May 26, 2012

Okay user "Options" start listing all of your options. I can't wait to hear these.

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Tax payer

10:41 am on Monday, May 28, 2012

Unless you are a mechanic and or drive a car that is 13 years old with mechanical problems, I don't feel you can make that suggestion. Go to the bus depot and find out EXACTLY the condition of the buses. Oh, and don't complain in 2-4 years that the buses need to be up-graded.
Football field--- Well, Well, Well----- The high school parents want their kids having the best just like you do. Plus the school board needs to "keep up with the other districts" in order to appear productive.
Redistricting is the best option--- But how much more are you willing to see come out of the budget to do this -- again?
Why don't you run for a school board chair??????? It is time that the public be heard--- just if you do, make sure you can listen and remain neutral for the best interest of the children, school district and the township.

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Buy Buses

9:25 am on Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Hey Taxpayer, the general fund has 10 Million EXTRA dollars in it. It has not been allocated for anything. If you need 1 million for buses, we still have plenty of general funds left over. Purchase some cheap fence that we can put around some buses at one of the schools. Hire a couple of drivers. Problem solved.
If the money isn’t spent on something needed they will only spend it on something frivolous.
Also old buses pass thing called a State Inspection. What happens with the older buses is usually esthetics, like ripped seats. Those things are not required to be fixed. So the 13 year old buses should be safe but probably worn.
Redistricting-How much does it really cost to redraw a map? I am sure this board could find a way to make it ridiculous. However it should be cheap.
I can’t believe you would defend a 3.2 million football field and argue against keeping inspected buses, redistricting and buying some new buses. It’s like we live in the world of no common sense.

Karate Rules!

4:36 pm on Saturday, May 26, 2012

Yeah! No one should talk about karate! I failed out of college and can't hold a job but you should see what I can do with my kamas and nunchucks!

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Michelle Hazlett

9:18 pm on Saturday, May 26, 2012

OH MY GOD!!!! GROW UP!! I am beginning to think that Mr. Sean, Avery, Search and Karate are either all the same person or they are all related because they have the mental capacity of a GNAT and are all from Southampton Patch!! Maybe not a good idea to have our blogs displayed on that patch because look what comes from it!! You have something productive to say than say it. If not go back to playing with your video games and watching Harry Potter cause I am tired of it!!!!

Just a thought

4:45 pm on Saturday, May 26, 2012

OK, I think we need to stop all of this and redirect our emotions. I know we all love our kids but attacking each other is not going to get us anywhere, regardless of what side of this issue you stand for. If you have a sugestion than email it to our Region 3 rep. Jane S. Lynch, (lyncja@centennialsd.org). If you oppose the dismissal time then sign the online peition.
http://www.change.org/petitions/centennial-community-oppose-the-new-dismissal-time-for-the-2012-2013-school-year?share_id=sHfqpolXzNpe=d2e
If you support the dismissal time then don't sign it. Let's spend some time with our families this holiday and try to redirect all of this emotion and get back to the true meaning of communiy!

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Part of the Solution

10:02 pm on Saturday, May 26, 2012

Just... to clarify - there are 3 reps in Region 3. Mrs. Lynch, Mr. Hartline and Mr. Kleinschmidt. Mr. Hartline and Mrs. Lynch have already stated they are against the new bell schedule, I would suggest you send your correspondence to Mr. Kleinschmidt (ikleich@centennialsd.org)f you wish to change his mind.

Emily Cohen

8:07 pm on Saturday, May 26, 2012

Suggestions can be made to the Ad Hoc Committee directly on the school district site via this link:

http://www.centennialsd.org/Page/5740

If the link doesn't work, go to the home page of the district, click on "About CSD" then click on the link for the Ad Hoc Committee. The committee will be meeting again this week. I agree with "Just a thought." Attacking will be non-productive. We are all adults, and are all entitled to our opinions, but there is no reason to resort to name-calling and personal attacks.

-Emily Cohen

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Email List

8:25 pm on Saturday, May 26, 2012

Does anyone have a mass emailing list for the parents? The petition needs to be communicated to everyone for it to be effective. That way if you send it to a 1,000 families you can see what percentage supports it.

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Just a thought

10:52 pm on Saturday, May 26, 2012

I do not have a mass list, wish I did!! My hope is that peope will pass this along and inform all of your friends and neighbors, I would like to have at least 100 signatures by early next week before the next Ad-Hoc meeting. I know it was sent to our home and school and McDonald's/ Davis' as well. Just to clarify the we do have 3 reps for our region but Mrs. Lynch is our rep for the Ad-Hoc committee.

Emily Cohen

8:34 pm on Saturday, May 26, 2012

An e-alert was sent regarding the Ad Hoc Committee and the availability of a comment section. Although that doesn't quite answer your question about the petition, it is a forum in which to suggest alternatives to the committee, instead of just stating that a group of people oppose the current ideas.

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Avery Walsh, PhD

10:20 pm on Saturday, May 26, 2012

Maybe there are just more people who think this is ridiculous than you wish to believe. I tried to be productive and asked one person to suggest an alternative and has this happened? Nope. So Ms. Hazlett until a solution is presented that is actually viable there is no point in continuing this conversation.

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Go Away Avery

9:06 pm on Sunday, May 27, 2012

Dear Avery, Are you a parent? If not the only thing that is ridiculous is you posting. Several alternatives are obvious like redistricting, re-evaluating the routes and purchasing used buses from the 10 million dollar "general fund". However for some reason people like you probably wouldn’t agree. Someone like you would probably be more agreeable to spend the general fund money on a non core item like a sound system or some sport item.
I disagree so much with the late start time I would vote to transport my own children to school at 8:00 or 8:30 in order to save my child's afternoon. You on the other hand don’t offer any solutions, criticize the parents, and act as if you are actually somebody of importance. I have no idea who you are except some naysayer. Unless you have a child in our elementary school I don’t care what you think. I only wish the negative posters like you and Sean McClain would show up to a meeting an announce yourselves. I could then watch the angry mothers peck your eyes out.

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Avery Walsh, PhD

10:07 pm on Sunday, May 27, 2012

Yes, I have two children in the district. The redistricting is completed and the routes have be evaluated numerous times. I don't agree with the sound system or sports related expenses either. If you disagree so much then it sounds like you have a plan in case this passes. It doesn't matter if you care what I think or not. The board is ultimately going to do what they want regardless of anything else. The reason I offer no solutions is because I agree with staggered bell schedule. Why would I offer alternatives to something that I agree with? I hope you all get what you are looking for, whatever that may be...

Really Avery?

8:22 pm on Monday, May 28, 2012

Avery, you agree with one elementary school getting the coveted early time, and the rest having to eat crow? Well that's not fair or equal treatment to the others. I guess as long as it doesn’t affect you or some others, then all is well in the world. The selfishness you and others have displayed is absolutely unbelievable. I can only hope you and the others like you are on the receiving end of the same badly created situation by this district. It is bound to happen with this School Board. Then I will post "who cares?" when it is important to your family.

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Avery Walsh, PhD

8:48 pm on Monday, May 28, 2012

No my children are in a school with the proposed 3:45 dismissal time...

Allison Carter

9:16 pm on Monday, May 28, 2012

Info about Everyday math is untrue; teachers were in fact asked about it and researched many different instructional options. Based on the discussion I had with my daughter's teacher, while there are positives and negatives to all programs, the positives - supportive statistical data that the program works, general positive outcomes - outweighed the negative. No offense to anyone here, but when it comes to my kid's education, the last thing I want is parents having any input on instructional methodology. Sorry, but I want individuals with degrees and experience in the field making curricular decisions, not parents with little or no knowledge about the programs. I don't expect my daughter's teachers to swing every curricular decision by me first; that's an unrealistic and wasteful expectation.

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southampton parent

8:09 am on Tuesday, May 29, 2012

I have talked to teachers and they say they are learning as the go also. This math is so confusing and backwards. We are not using the math in the real world so why are they teaching it. Just stick to the basic math and stop confusing everyone

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Everyday Nonsense

10:05 pm on Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Allison, my child has Everyday Math. The problem is they introduce the complex at the same time they are introducing the basics. When I was taught, we spent a couple days on each concept before moving on. This is all over the place. My 4th grade child was literally doing three problems of each of the following on a homework sheet: Geometry, Fractions, decimals, word problems and square and cubic area. The kid ends up kind of knowing a little of each and masters nothing. IT IS HORRIBLE. Did I mention THERE IS NO TEXT BOOK that correlates to the workbook. There is a reference book that doesn’t match up with the workbook. I spent every night doing every day math with my child. It is horrible!!!

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Pamela

12:08 pm on Thursday, May 31, 2012

Everyday Mathematics curriculum was released in 1985. WWC reviewed the evidence in support of the Everyday Mathematics program. Of the 61 pieces of evidence submitted by the publisher, 57 did not meet the WWC minimum standards for scientific evidence. In math, Students in 23 countries had a higher average score and only four countries had average scores lower than the United States. The ranking of U.S. students in math and science is about the same as it was in 2003. Rather than helping achieve higher test scores, "reform" programs such as Everyday Math caused many districts to achieve lower test scores.
Many school districts and parents regard Singapore Math as the solution to reverse the damage done by "reform math" programs. School Districts have examine research-based math curricula aligned to the new Common Core standards, adopted by 40 states,that have been designed to prepare students for a global economy. An international math curriculum, Singapore Math is much more rigorous and accelerated than the math programs previously used in our schools, especially at the elementary level. With a strong emphasis on problem solving, the new math program provides a coherent curriculum from kindergarten to high school and includes materials for students with special needs as well as those in a gifted program. And this is why CSB chose Everyday Math because they know better than the educators...

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Pamela

12:50 pm on Friday, June 1, 2012

shame it was the school board directors and not the teachers that made the decision to implement Everyday Math....It would have been much more informative if the teachers were actually asked for their opinions....

Mary Alice Brancato

1:12 pm on Tuesday, May 29, 2012

http://tigersurvey.com/Survey.aspx?id=177690
In case any of you haven't received this by email from the school district.
Survey about the bell schedule and possible resolutions. Fill it out and state your opinions. Hopefully then this bell schedule can be resolved so that all the kids don't have to make any changes to the times they get out of school.

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southampton parent

8:17 am on Wednesday, May 30, 2012

What is going on with the new Davis playground. I don't know if anyone has noticed the giant hill in the back where they put 48 steps and a ramp on it without asking anyones opinion. Well they want to send our children up that hill for their playground. They have 30 minutes to come out of their rooms, walk the hallways, out of the building and up the hill. By the time that is done they will have to get ready to come back down the hill and if you know children they will run down the hill, roll down the hill and possibly FALL down the hill. I don't know whos crazy idea this was. The hill is not a good idea nor is it a safe place. What another waist of money putting steps and ramp on the hill. You couldn't of found an easier way or cheap way to get rid of the dirt. I didn't see any sign telling people Free Fill dirt. I know my husband would of gladly taken some and so would probably other households. Are we going to allow this? Are our children going to be safe at recess?? Remember possibly 100 students per grade will be RUNNING out to recess. Are you gone to stop them from running up and down the hill? Does anyone know what STackpole hill looks like? they run up and down there all the time even though they are told not to.

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Pamela

12:41 pm on Friday, June 1, 2012

I find it sadly amusing that the "professionals" who are getting paid this outrageous salary can't figure out that the their re-districting map is drawn half baked in a lopsided oven. The shortest route is a straight line, NOT a zig zag round the world detour. These same people actually left space in 1 school for the influx of children from the Shenendoah Woods project that is NOT even approved yet. It could be 5 years before our schools see any increase in numbers but our "educated" admin/transport leaders thought it a brilliant idea to over load the other two schools. Isn't this why we consolidated?????? Can someone please answer this question, your so quick to jump in any other time.

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1+1=3

9:11 pm on Saturday, June 2, 2012

Pamela, several people have shined a flashlight on the re-districting and pointed out how it doesn’t make sense. I was a dispatcher for years for a delivery company and spotted this out as soon as I saw the map. I voiced this at a meeting. What I believe happened, is they voted for this redistricting map and now have to abide by it. It’s as if the board voted that 1+1=3 and how dare you question them. They will not redistrict because it makes sense. They will only redistrict if they vote on it.

Warminster Resident

12:30 pm on Thursday, June 7, 2012

Pamela, if you are going to simply copy and paste information on Everyday Math from random websites that you find when you google it, please site the location so that those individuals who are actually interested in this data can read the more in-depth information included on those sites that you plagerized.

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Warminster Resident

12:32 pm on Thursday, June 7, 2012

Please note - and I haven't seen the redistricting map, so I'm not sure if this is the case - that when creating a redistricting map, you cannot simply just draw straight lines. If you did that, you would chop neighborhood in half, with kids from one house going to one school, and kids next door possibly going to another. My guess is that the district created a map with the goal of keeping specific neighborhoods together. Again, I haven't studied the map enough to say any of this for certainty, but it's a possibility.

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Lou

10:11 am on Saturday, June 9, 2012

Please everyone, stop complaining about the cost of the sound system in the auditorium of the high school. Have you seen the size of that room? Would it be worth spending a lot less, and then having mics that don't work, or not being about to hear past row 20?
It is the biggest auditorium in the area and needed a big system. They rent out the space often, which brings in money. There are a lot of things lacking on the stage, like not having wings on the sides, or a ceiling that could hang a backdrop, and other improvements that could have been made but weren't because of costs. But the sound system needed to be done.

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No Lou

8:26 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012

Dear Lou, a sound system may be needed. However I would argue $500,000 is a bit excessive. Was it bid out to three different bidders? As an Alumni of Tennant, a taxpayer, a parent, and a person of common sense I know it’s excessive. My brother had a band with about $10,000 worth of amplifiers which would easily light that place up.
I also noticed we are buying a $9000 diving board, $98,000 battery backups which I don’t think is justified. How often due we really loose power? Someone said they don’t want their kids to be in the dark. With all the windows during the day it’s a bunch of nonsense. Also don’t tell me it’s for clean computer power because I could buy all new computers for the school for probably less than half of that. Just remember they still keep telling us they have no money for buses. I am so angry at the level of incompetence and skewed judgment I could vomit. So Lou I would guess you are the contractor for the new sound system?

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Lou

9:48 am on Thursday, June 28, 2012

No, ha ha, not the contractor for the new sound system. Just a parent of a kid who was involved in theater when she was at Tennent, who has sat in the dead spots in the theater where sound just can't reach with the old system, which was very old.

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